Parents and Children
Children / Siblings / Kids / Child
This text deals about parents-childs relationship. The relationship are describe for each of elements (in zodiacal sense). Description is more general – for parenting; not written only for mother-child or father-child.
Aries, Leo and Sagittarius make up the fire trinity; these parents are dynamics, playful and imaginative and such is their parenting. They will be openly affectionate and demonstrative, genuinely enjoying the company of children. They can lack a sence of practicality and generally are not good with routine or time management. They believe in magic and will endeavour to pass this on to their babies.
Fire parents with a fire child
This dynamic, if somewhat fiery and tempesious, relationship can be enjoyed by both parties. A shared enjoyment of physical activities can be a bonding point, as will their optimism and belief in the magic of the world. Problems can arise when the parent identifies too much with the child, denying the child space to be their own person. Idealising (or idolising) each other is wonderful until the statue falls off the pedestal.
Fire parent with an earth child
This can be mutually beneficial with the fire parent bringing spontaneity and magic to the earth child, who in turn can teach the parent stability and patience. It is important for the fire parent to respect their earth child’s need for security and routine. The fire parents may find it hard to understand their child’s need for sameness and their difficulity in believing in things that are not tangible. The earch child needs to physically experience something for it to be real buy the fire parent will encourage the dreams of the air child, as well as their freedom and independence.
Fire parent with an air child
This relationship embodies the melding of ideas and imagination. Many a long discussion over the dinner table on just about any subject imaginable can be ine scenario. This relationship can run into difficulty when both parent and child are living in the realm of possibility rather than reality. The fire parent will encourage the dreams of air child, as well as their freedom and independence.
Fire parent with a water child
This is probably the most difficult child for the fire parent to understand, as where fire is passionate, this child is emotional. The fire parent may not understand the sensitivity of their little water baby. Fire and water combinated create steam and this can well describe what happens when these two find themselves together. The fire parent should ty to be objective and accept that we are all dirrerent.
Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo are the earth trinity and these parents are practical, security-conscious and organised. They take care of the essentials in life, will be physically aware and gibe their children firm foundation and material grounding. They may lack imagination and spontaneity and be too rigid in their parenting for some children.
Earth parent with earth child
This combination provides both parties with security and stability. The child depends on the parent for their protection and wellbeing and will usually be a relatively easy child for the earth parent to understand. The combination can lack creativity and imagination.
Earth parent with a fire child
The fire babycan be a handfull for the earth parent but perseverance will pay off in the long run. The earth parent will tear their hair out at the fire child’s lack of discipline adn inability to focus on the material world. The child, on the other hand, can feel the parent is stifling their creativity and imagination. Earth puts out fire and the risk in this relationship is the parent stifling an essential part of their child’s nature. The plus is that this combination mixes the realm of possibilitues and dream with the ability to create reality.
Earth parent with an air child
This is another relationship where the child can feel stifled and misunderstood. It can be a clash of matter adn thought where the child deals in reality and the parent in ideas. In this case the parent needs to show patience and explain everything, as reason will win out over force.
Earth parent with a water child
This can be comfortable relationship with one needing security and the other wanting to the same. The earth parent may find the water child’s emotions overwhelming at times but of you can remember to give comfort in times of need, yoy will find things settle quickly.
The air trinity consists of Aquarius, Gemini and Libra. These parents can spend hours talking to their children and trying to take a logical approach. This is often lost on the children, who can be anything but logival. Advice to the air parent, if yoy wish to follow the book, make sure your child has read the same edition.
Air parent with an air child
This household has a lot of noise. There will be constant chatter and exchange of ideas and experiences; a television in one room, stereo in the next and the radio blaring in another, all eliciting comments and discussion. What can be lacking are grounding and a sence of practicality.
Air parent with an earth child
The air parent may find the earth child’s need for physical connection puzzling. Words are not enough, this child learns though experience and much of that throught the senses: taste, touch, sight, sound and smell. In this household there can be an auditory blowout with not enough attention given to the other senses. The air parent needs to ensure that all of the senses receive equal attantion.
Aries siblings will want to take the lead among their brothers and sisters, paricularly if they are the oldest. A young or middle Aries sibling, on the other hand, may expect to be protected, often burying him-/herself in the peace and security of the family bosom. In the case of dysfunvional or unstable families, the Aries sibling can be a bulwark or mainstay in a chaotic situation, even substutuing for the parents and helping to raise brother(s) or sister(s). An older Aries sibling can also be quite dictatiorial, assuming the role of a generalissimo whose orders must be obeyed without question. His/her tyranny, however, can prove reassuring to the younger ones, since the Aries’ strict discipline lends a feeleing of stability.
Unless they are the oldest, in which case their dominant and agressive side is likely to emerge, Cancer siblings often fit into multisibling family with grace and ease. Prone to be spoiled by their more active brothers and sisters, Cancer siblings are usually content to play a secondary role, doing their own thing quietly and unobtrusively. They are likely to have a favorite sibling to whom they attach themselves, almost to the point of becoming their shadow. Cancer siblings often stand out from the other choldren besause of their acute parental needs, particulary if they have a chronic physical, mental, or emotional condition.